
All these factors pile onto these emotions from the Irresistible Revolution and the news that Sven, my PhD friend - I met through the International Mentorship program isn't going to be around to for the next 3 years - he's off back home due his adviser's departure back to Stuttgart. It's sad, it was really nice having someone I felt inherently understood a part of me - the whole being German thing. My parents loved that they could talk with him, and overall he's a genuinely nice person. On top of all that it was also nice that he was one of the first guys I haven't messed up our friendship with all the other stuff. Granted if we're going to look at this honestly - it could be argued that he hasn't seen the broken/damaged part of me - total bonus for all involved if you ask me. In probably one of our last times together, yesterday - he really encouraged me to relax - he's not worried about the PhD, life at full speed kind of thing, and in reality nor should I be... the way it's shaping up I will be taking a few distance ed courses this fall. I don't know about the spring, I was thinking maybe following Shane's lead and going to India - volunteering for a few months and maybe travelling - it's expensive so we'll have to see what transpires - at this point I may just have to settle for a week at the yoga retreat in Costa Rica and save the big travelling for later - next fall my mom's cousin, my aunt, my mom and my cousin all wanted to do a jaunt through Europe - but now with Sven there - maybe I can just kidnap him to give me a little tour around. First and formost right now is Las Vegas - last weekend of August it seems...
The more I look at the future the more I want to just do anything - I don't have to worry about finding "the one" because we've eliminated that, and med school - no worries there - that's gone and kids - well not for the next 5 years at least. So why not embrace life? In that spirit - I've got two pieces planed for this summer - the first one is a lotus flower - I found the perfect one in this month's Yoga Journal... but I may be more daring and go for gebrochen, "broken" in German (still have to check that's the 100% right word) - to go with my b-theme and the reality that I am broken and always want to remain that way in part - it's in our brokenness that we can be used... and that would be on my left foot running parallel along the side.
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